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Nobody likes being criticised but, unfortunately it is a fact of life. To be able to respond to criticism with nobility is an important life skill, which few people have.
?Do you accept to be criticized
?Have you ever criticized your self
how do you deal with criticism

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What Can I Learn from Criticism?
Most criticism is probably based, at least in part, on some truths. Criticism may appear negative. But, through criticism we have the opportunity to learn and improve .

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How to deal with Criticism

Respond to the suggestions not the tone of the criticism
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we need to separate the criticism from the style of criticism. Even if people speak in a tone of anger, we should try to detach their emotion from the useful suggestions which lie underneath.

Value criticism.
The problems is that , we only value praise. When people speak kind words we feel happy. When people criticise we feel miserable. However, if we only received insincere praise and false flattery, how would we ever make progress?

Don’t take it personally
When people criticise us directly, we should feel they are not criticising our real self; but, just an a small aspect of ourselves

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After being criticized
, THANK THEM FOR THEIR ADVICE and promise to take it into consideration
CONSIDER THE SOURCE. The person criticizing you may be incompetent, envious, or jealous. If so, after thanking them for their advice, just brush it off:biggrin:
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Smiling, even a false smile, can helps us to relax more. It creates a more positive vibration and smoothes the situation
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We are all perfectly imperfect, and other people may notice that from time to time. We can’t control what other people will say to us, whether they’ll approve or form opinions and share them. But we can control how we internalize it, respond to it, and learn from it
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اقتباس:

even if i did something good, keep thinking if it any how hurts or got bad to any person.

same like me...any way
i really appreciate your time to read and to comment on my topic
Regards

Thank you for your topic

I benefited from some of the words .. God willing, will be visiting this section several times because I love to learn English and develop

thanks & regards

Hooooola my friend :love080:

Frankly , not always :mh318:

I'm merciless critic with myself :icon9:


According to the person and her\his way of criticism .. I can Accept and decide how to deal with it

If the person is good enough to criticize and her way is acceptable , sure I'll benefit of what she said

and re-evaluate myself

If she isn't and criticize for another reasons .. her criticism will be NONSENSE !

and I won't bother myself with re-evaluation


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Sweetie , I really like ur topic
hope to see effective discussion


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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة the.best (المشاركة 4677699) Thank you for your topic I benefited from some of the words .. God willing, will be visiting this section several times because I love to learn English and develop thanks & regards

thanks for passing by
and surely,,you are more than welcome in this section anytime
Regards
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Hooooola my friend :love080:

oh,,look who si here..
hiii JoJo

اقتباس:

I'm merciless critic with myself

me too,,though im in love with my self,,
:biggrin:

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According to the person and her\his way of criticism .. I can Accept and decide how to deal with it

yea,,but you know ,,either ways ,,i think that criticism should be taken as a learning experience
so you would figure out who really cares about you and who just wants to devastate you

اقتباس:

Sweetie , I really like ur topic

and i really liked your comment
:106:...

Do you accept to be criticized
i don't believe that i have a choice

Have you ever criticized your self
All the time

how do you deal with criticism
first i have to remind everyone that there are no right/wrong
answers to this question, there is only me answer. I myself always
ask my friends saying "if it's not about religon, please do not
critcize nor advice me". however, you can not control people so
i get some of it sometimes. my way to deal with it is to wait till
that person finish talking and then walk away or as we say here in
The Kingdom "tsleeeek". because i strongly believe that it should
come from within not without. Meaning that one should use
critical thinking in his/her own life. and if one fail in any decision
he or she had made although everyone told them so. i believe
that's great because this is one of the advantages
of life/ages/time (call it what you like) which is it teaching you
what no ever could ever thought you. and
make you "well-done" when others were
going to "burn" you cause they're in hurry for you
to get there too fast. however, there is
no shortcuts in this life

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if it's not about religon, please do not critcize nor advice me".

hmm,,I see ,,but are you sure it's a good thing to ignore criticism that way,,coz it
could always teach you sthng whether about ur self or about others
any way its your opinion and as you said

اقتباس:

there are no right/wrong answers to this question, there is only me answer.

enjoyed reading your comment

اقتباس:

Thanx Portia

most welcome
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oh yeah, if it is coming from someone else not oneself i
think IT MUST BE IGNORED by letting it pass on as
if nothing had happend aka Tsleeek.. however, i see
where you are coming from and i understand it as i
understand that there are plenty of ways to learn things
about yourself or others without harming anyone. Also, know that
i'm only talking here about human using it
between each other to judge personalities
but in every other field i think it's one of the best tools
to be used if not the best


thanx again